Saturday, June 20, 2015

Gave Away

I guess the best thing my Dad ever did for me was probably the hardest for him.

The best thing he did was to give me away.

When Nick and I married my Dad who had been my sole parent since I was 9 gave me away to be fully married.  I was to cling to Nick- no longer him.

That had to be hard. How do you hand a 19 year old your daughter?  And expect him to take care of her?  My Dad did.  Somehow I knew without really being told that now- Nick was to provide for me and take care of me.  My Dad gave me what I needed to have a strong marriage.  He gave me to independence to be dependent on another.

July 2, 1988

June 16, 2012  Allison and Ben's Wedding Day

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